You need to have a good firm heart for your life.
Without the God in your heart, you are sailing in the sea at a dark night without a reference to the light house. You are lost, or you are wonder around in a vast grass land of Inner Mongolia in a dark night without any reference star in the sky.
I work with Brazilian colleagues and again I found the people are the same no matter what language they speak.
Good people do not lost their good direction.
I realize that Inner Mongolia (our homeland) reference means nothing to all of you. Consider yourselves lucky.