Practice good life skill and quality

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Hi Kids,

I want love you guys with truth. I do not want “love without truth”.

Then this means I need to remind you all the time to practice good life skill and quality.

1. Practice all the time, to be honest, never lie to anybody, never lie to your parents, never cheat people. 

2. Be thankful to people who helped you, thankful to God who give you the opportunities, lucks, health, family, all those things that you really have no control. Have a good heart.

3. Work hard, never to be lazy,

5. With objective views to all things around you, data, information, etc. Do not let your emotion to blind you from the truth, true picture of the matter.

6. Treat money like Jews, always try to do things economically, never waste, keep you money for higher priority use.

7. Always improve your behavior and always drop/cut off bad habits. Be safe and take care for good health.

8. Do not drink much, Drunk is not nice, but silly, and ugly.

Love you
dad

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A little bit of Father’s Day wisdom for you from Fortune Cookie Father at his best.  

Show your fathers some love. I hope you all have a great day! 

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When baby lions are small, the parent lions keep them in a safe place

Thursday, May 23, 2013
Hi kids,
 
Last night I watched lions in Animal Planet Channel. When baby lions are small, the parent lions keep them in a safe place and they are not allowed to go much outside there. When they gradually grow up with more capability to depend, the parents allow them to go little further away from the cave and also start to teach them to hunt. In the beginning, the baby lions cannot catch food and have to rely on the parents feeding them. Gradually, they can catch some food, but still have to follow their parents and get supplement food from the parents. 
 
During this time, the children loins have to learn from their parents to improve their capability to hunt and make a living. They must be able to listen their parents and follow.
 
I image if the children lions could not learn from their parents before fully capable of hunting, they could not survive eventually and they must get lost and die. Human being must be the same. If a child cannot learn from their parents or other successful people, they may act or think  impractically and eventually hard to survive.
 
I also recall the story about an adult cat and a baby cat fishing together. The adult cat caught good amount fish, but the baby cat did not get any. This is because the adult cat knows that the fish is good food they can rely on and he was concentrate to fishing. However, the baby cat was distracted by catching butterflies and small insects and cannot concentrate the real big food – fish. By end of the day, the baby cat did not get the food that he can eat. How successful is dependent on how big fish you can catch. If you can catch a lots or really big fishes, you can share with others to help them, then you will become very popular. If you only get a few butterflies or a few small insects, you cannot feed yourself. You have to beg from others. You cannot be popular.
 
Even your friends will keep away from you because they do not want you to ask money from them.
 
Love you
dad

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Parent birds bark to protecting their offspring

Saturday, May 18, 2013

A nest with three green eggs was photographed by me today. Every time when I approach the tree the parent birds barks/yell hard to ask me keep away from the tree. This is the nature how diligently parents to protecting their offspring, as if to protect their lives. By nature, human beings are no difference to keep their offspring safe as if to protect their lives.

You should do the same. Otherwise it is abnormal or foolish.

A nest with three green eggs

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You must bind yourself firmly with your family

Thursday, May 16, 2013

If you want to be strong and happy, you must bind yourself firmly with your family – your parents, grand parents, your spouse, your children. Without them you are always weak and venerable to be hurt and fall. Like a tree it will be weak or even effectively die without connecting to its roots and leaves. 

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You have to bond yourself to something bigger than just yourself

Sunday, May 05, 2013
Hi kids,

Here is a photo of your Yeye 爷爷 (grandfather) in1986 when I married your Mom, backing the home in Inner Mongolia.

Your Yeye is a man who lived with strong principles and bonded him self firmly to his family – his brothers (his uncle, his mom, your 大爷爷，your 三爷爷, his sister, of course his children).

He had a strong mission to revive the family, form a connecting link between the preceding generation to the following generation. He fulfilled his family obligations tirelessly.

He got happiness from his family, and his family obligations. Whenever his children doing good, he got happiness, and proud. He also share his happiness with his brothers and sister.

In fact, this is how people get happy life. You have to bond yourself spiritually, emotionally and materially to something bigger than just yourself. Particularly, you need to bond to your family strongly. That is the way to get happiness and life foundation. Otherwise, if someone does not bond to anything than himself, then his/her life does not have strong foundation and  very easy to get hurt, feel lonely, and lost drive. Self-centered people has hard life and in fact get least from the world.

Your 大爷爷 is an another good example. He had a happy long life because he bonded himself strongly to his family.He was very satisfied that he did good contribution to help his brothers when they were young and at his father passed away.

Love your
Dad

FCF's Father

FCF’s Father

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